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21. Caring hearts never lack caring hands

22. Desperation leads to frustration. Don’t be so desperate that you will marry just anyone.

PRAYER: Any power that wants you to be frustrated shall be frustrated by heaven.

23. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin

24. The best way to enslave a woman is to show love to her excessively.

  • As a rule- women do not run away from where they are pampered, cherished, appreciated and loved.
  • If you are the “send me credit” kind of guy “sister, I don’t have money, send me credit.” Before she asks for something-do it.

25. Love is not blind but infatuation and lust are blind

26. Love puts God first while lust puts sex first.

27. Test every love with your peace of mind. If peace of mind is absent God is not in it. If you are in a relationship and you have no peace about it-God is not in it.

28. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without sun; marry your friend.

PRAYER: May you marry your friend in Jesus’ name

May you not beg your enemies and may you not die with your enemies like Samson in Jesus’ name.

29. If you hurry into marriage- you may end up with a person who will bury your destiny. Sex cannot tie a man down.

30. A successful marriage is always a triangle; a man; a woman and God.

31. Why you get married is as important as who you marry

32. Getting married could be easy, staying married is another matter

33. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice. A good choice will enhance your life while a poor or bad choice will turn your life upside down.

34. A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing whom to marry.

35. Do not place your priority on good looks that is not on handsomeness or beauty.

  • There are no ugly women in the world- all they need is re-branding.

36. The three (3) major characteristics to look for in a woman are:

  • Fear of God-ability to do the right thing at the right time
  • Discretion
  • Wisdom
  • Beauty is vain-it will go away.

37. It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person

38. Avoid a woman who is contentious that is argumentative or quarrelsome.

39. The three (3) major kind of men to avoid

  • A womanizer
  • A hot-tempered man
  • A drunkard.

PRAYER: May you not marry a drunkard and May you not marry a man that will be beating you.

40. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage

PRAYER: You will have a happy marriage in Jesus’ name

Satanic siren chasing away my divine partner- shut up in the name of Jesus.

41. Never be yoked with anyone who refuses to be yoked to Christ.

42. When you want something that no one has had, you must do what no one has done.

  • If you want a perfect husband; a perfect wife, then the kind of prayers you have never prayed before- you must pray it
  • Pray like Hannah- a drunken prayer; pray like Jesus who prayed until he sweated blood; pray like Elijah-who placed his head between his knees.
  • When you pray those kind of prayers-you can get whatever you want.

43. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan too wants to destroy your life, he puts a person in your life.

  • There are people to meet and there are people to miss. There are some people you should never meet.

44. Silence can never be misquoted. It is what you say that people will quote

45. A stingy man who is single will be single when he is married.

46. Three (3) words that echo peace of mind:

  • I am sorry
  • Thank you
  • I love you.
  • There are some people who do not know how to say “sorry.”

47. Don’t waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness. Keep your time busy-for the Lord.

48. Co-habitation is a recipe for marital failure

49. Masturbation is destructive. You will start reaping the results of masturbation fifteen years after.



  • It will make the man’s organ to be small, soft and bend in strange direction
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Impotency


  • It makes women’s un-satisfiable and sexually loose.
  • The sexual organs will wear out and the womb may start dropping after fifteen years.


  • It is a spirit that has gotten involved. You are having sex with yourself. It will later lead to marital instability.

50. Deal with anti-marriage dreams.

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I believe that you will learn a lot from this man of God and be blessed too. Remain in Christ’s love. Shalom.